October 9, 2019
Have you ever sat in your car in a hospital car park, trying not to be sick; wanting not to have seen what you’ve seen, not have heard what you heard, not know what you now know?
Have you ever sat in your car in a hospital car park, trying not to be sick; wanting not to have seen what you’ve seen, not have heard what you heard, not know what you now know?
Have you ever held
someone’s hand when the consultant tells a loved one they have
cancer? Have you ever been taken into a side room and told by a
doctor there is nothing more that can be done?
Have you ever knelt
in front of the toilet bowl and thrown up before going into work?
Have you ever sat outside your office gripping the steering wheel of
your car as tight as you can to try and stop your hands shaking?
Have you ever come
home at night and just sobbed over how miserable and isolated you
feel? Have you lain awake with the criticism, humiliation and
ridicule you’ve endured echoing around your head so loudly you
can’t sleep?
Have you ever had
that call when someone you’ve shared life’s journey with has
decided to end it all because of the pressures they were carrying
within them? Have you ever clung to that now lost voice on your answering machine?
If you can honestly
answer ‘no’ to every one of these then you truly are lucky. Every
single person I know will tick more than one of these.
In the last four
years, my wife has dealt with all of them.
The pressures we
feel in our personal and professional lives don’t just make us who
we are, but who we aren’t.
Despite all the
publicity and social media posts about removing the stigma of mental
health, the truth is it is probably more dominant
than ever… and as intrinsically powerful and destructive as ever.
Go over on your
ankle and the pain will lead you to A&E for that x-ray. Feel
frightened, intimidated, lost or worthless and you travel inwards, and
sometimes you never come back.
The only way you
ever really reach someone and understand what they are going through,
is to speak to them, and to let them speak. Despite all the lip
service and tokenism made from official bodies, it is the individual
who understands, not the collective, not ever the collective. And
while I certainly am no royalist, I thought that was underlined by
the publicity given to mental health issues by Princes William and
Harry. It was a rare example where station in life is irrelevant, and
understanding it is the individual that matters.
Government,
organisations, businesses, bosses, media, can all make the right
sounds but in too many cases their actions don’t bear scrutiny,
and, more often than not, there is a disgraceful display of double
standards.
Even the support
organisations, like the Scottish Association for Mental Health, the
Samaritans, the Mental Health Foundation, operate on a reaction
basis. Of course reaching out to those struggling with the effects is
important, but the actual action of addressing the causation is just as vital.
Dealing, if you are
able to, with a mental health issue must surely be one of the
loneliest journeys you can make. Those around you don’t just have
the responsibility of providing support and understanding, but also
anticipating and limiting the damage of that psychological explosion
or implosion.
Professional help,
in diagnosis and prognosis, can literally save a life. It’s not
about unravelling the tangle it is about helping to recognise that
tangle and the threads that make it, and addressing each and every
one of them.
Over the past few
months my wife worked on a complaint and then a blog based on her
fitness-to-practise hearing held by the Scottish Social Services
Council. She fought her corner and fought it well, and lost. That’s
life. The blog is finished now and I hope the writing of it did
provide at least a partial catharsis.
Some of the events
she encountered I found astonishing and disturbing. I witnessed many
of them first hand, and that was followed by weeks of helping and
advising her and what she could and couldn’t say and put out into the public domain, and realising the
damage the whole experience caused her.
But there is one
aspect I find revolting and repugnant – the assessment carried out
on her mental health.
I majored in
psychology at university. The subject I found most fascinating was
abnormal psychology and communication. It was a long time ago but
even so, when I graduated, I wouldn’t have dared to presume I could
even perform an acceptable lab experiment on putting woodlice through
a maze.
To assess someone’s
personality is a complex and confidential process. It takes years of
training, years of practise, along with hours and hours of client
sessions.
Unless you are the
SSSC.
Now I know there
will be groans of “Oh no, not the SSSC again”. Well, to be fair,
it’s not just the SSSC, a solicitor told me all governing bodies do
it, and that makes it even worse. It some respects it is such a
complicated subject, and, bizarrely, it is made complicated by sheer
simplicity and idiocy.
No matter how a governing bodies presents a character analysis, it is an assessment of mental health, and of attitudes
and values. Yet it has no validity and no authority. There is no data, no
methodology, no rationale, no research, no qualification, and
absolutely no regard for the mental health of the subject at the time
of an incident, during the investigation, at the hearing and in the
aftermath. Or the damage this subjective, amateurish puerile
pontificating can cause.
What happened to my
wife was this. She was assessed as “lacking insight” and of
having no “meaningful reflection”. Add to that a personality that
was “critical and negative”.
Basically, the
classic symptoms of anosognosia, but let’s put that aside.
In the months that
led up to the allegations against her, she endured having to deal
with disease, death and despair coming from every direction. And when
it came time to defend herself, I added to that burden with her
trying to deal with the SSSC while facing weeks and weeks of daily
winter visits to Ninewells.
And at the very
heart of that emotional, sapping period was her work environment. I
remember the tears, the rage, the frustration and, to my shame,
growing weary of the endless tales of being undermined, criticised,
harassed and bullied. It was the final straw and it broke her.
So months later, she
dismissed the option to make or accept any compromise on her responsibility, and believed the two
superiors she had issues with would be brought to account for their behaviour. Incredibly,they
were the only two witnesses called to give evidence on that behaviour. They even arrived together at the hearing.
Their
corroborative statements were accepted without question as proof that none of my wife’s claims had
any validity or substance. Together they described an environment
that, while busy, was not very far short of bliss and benevolence. It was an atmosphere of care, compassion and concern, but one, however, that did not pick up the signals that a manager was struggling.
So, after being portrayed as
being somewhere between a liar and a fantasist, came that damning personality assessment. It was made without a single meeting, and constructed without conversation or consent. It is hard to believe but it is actually not even tailored - the phrases and buzz words litter the profiles of dozens of others. These are the final off-the-shelf conclusions. issued with authority and finality.
But by whom? It appears
that these assessments are written by someone with no mental health
qualifications or expertise at all. Then to compound the insult, ignominy and invasion into your personality, this is then posted online and put into the public domain… forever.
If you look at the
rules, published by the Royal College of Psychiatrists, governing psychiatric reports presented in criminal courts, that SSSC assessment breaches every safeguard and professional protocol there is.
But there is the problem. The SSSC's analysis is beyond the reach of all authority as it is
neither medical nor expert, but it is protected by law.
The SSSC operates freely within two Catch 22s. There is the Article 6 conundrum of the Human Rights Acts that guarantees everyone has a fair hearing but... the SSSC doesn't need to be fair as long as there is a right of appeal over
anything that might be unfair, because that appeal then makes the process fair.
Then there are the rules governing psychological
profiling. There must be methodology; it can be scrutinised, challenged, and must be confidential - if it is expert and medical. But if it is
an amateur opinion simply pretending to be expert or medical, then it doesn't need to meet any of those criteria and can be made
public without any recourse. Outwith the hearing process, it would be defamatory. Inside it though it is protected by privilege and by Article 6.
The Tweet from SSSC chief executive Lorraine Gray that underlined the importance the governing body gives to mental health officers. |
The sheer hypocrisy of this bizarre state of affairs was underlined by a recent Tweet from SSSC chief
executive Lorraine Gray. She posted on Twitter, along with a picture of
herself, the SSSC commitment to supporting the training of social workers as mental health officers (MHOs), and inviting those to study the key data the SSSC had
collated. The importance of MHOs was stressed yet their governing body actually practises a process of mental health assessments carried out by not meeting or speaking to anyone but just subjectively making them up then sharing them on the internet with the world.
I hope the first mental health officer who faces a fitness to practise hearing appreciates the irony of that.
Think about it. How
would you feel if someone you have never met or spoken to went and
posted an ‘official’ assessment of you?
Murderers are given
more respect than that.
And who has
authorised this?
We have, the public.
We have said it is
perfectly permissible to subjectively judge another person’s mental
health and state of mind and then share it with the world, free of
any challenge or comeback.
It would be
interesting to find out the impact of that unregulated freedom on people’s lives.
It is outrageous and
reckless behaviour, and yet it is publicly condoned. It’s one thing to share
a meme proffering support to those with mental health issues with a
“I know who will share this” message but just consider where
those issues might come from.
My wife has
contacted a number of mental health organisations as well as a
solicitor, seeking their advice. All have said amateur psychological
assessments are beyond reach, but the legal advice was as cynical as
it was honest.
The best way to have
avoided all of this – the career-ending decision, the humiliation,
the public vilification, that damning piece of psychological drivel –
was not to have challenged the initial decision in the first place and not to have insisted
on going to a hearing.
Contrary to the
logic of expecting the governing body of your profession, one you
partially fund through annual subscriptions, to legally act on your
behalf according to the principle of Scots law, it is just the
biggest bully in the playground, and the teacher’s pet.
Surely as
individuals and the groups left to pick up the pieces of people’s
shattered lives we should be tackling this? The Scottish Government
recognises, or at least says it recognises, that mental
illness is one of the major public health challenges in
Scotland, yet
it approves and endorses the behaviour of organisations like the
SSSC.
Why
aren’t our MSPs, the staff of mental health organisations, support
group workers and the general public asking questions?
Questions
like, “What are the qualifications of the people making these
assessments?”
“On
what evidence did you base them?”
“Why
do they need to be made public?”
“What
is your purpose for permanently stigmatising an individual?”
These
are hardly difficult or controversial questions. We wouldn’t let someone with no
medical knowledge, who has never even spoken to us, publicly proclaim
personal details on our health.
If
it was
our mental health, we’d
be equally aggrieved.
But,
if it is someone else? Well, that seems to be a different matter. We can live with that.
Maybe it's harder to live with, when it's you?
I do not believe you are alone in your views on this at all. Sadly many have experienced insult upon injury when having to try to defend themselves against a "system" which gives no respect or empathy to those who are struggling to deal with some form of trauma. I feel quite sad when i hear of how individuals are treated.
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